Tuesday, December 18, 2012

Week of Joy - Tuesday

Matthew 2:20 - 23.
"Get up," the angel said, "and take the child and his mother and go to the land of Israel. Those who were trying to kill the child are dead." Joseph got up, took the child and his mother, and went to the land of Israel. But when he heard that Archelaus ruled over Judea in place of his father Herod, Joseph was afraid to go there. Having been warned in a dream, he went to the area of Galilee. He settled in a city called Nazareth so that what was spoken through the prophets might be fulfilled: He will be called a Nazarene.

"Withdrawal is not an end in itself; withdrawal happens for the purpose of return" (page 64, Singing Mary's Song).  Were you able to schedule a few moments to withdrawal yesterday?  How did what you experienced in that withdrawal alter your day?

Mary and Joseph, with little Jesus, were refugees in a foreign land. They had to find work and a place to live. But always, everywhere, God was with them.  At the time God made known to them, they returned to their homeland. John Stroman says it well, "The point of withdrawal and return lies not in seeking God somewhere else and bringing God back into the here and now. Rather, this process engages us in the exciting discovery that the God we thought was only “out there” is already “in here.” 

Taking time apart each day for reading and meditation helps us find that God is present with us. Sometimes I wish he would speak as clearly to me as he did to Joseph. Perhaps the truth is that Joseph listened better than I. I find that taking daily time for withdrawal is challenging. I don't manage it every day, sometimes not even in a week.

Reflection Questions for Tuesday, Week Three
Take time for quiet reflection.  Respond to the questions below by writing in your journal or quietly reflecting. 
  • "Withdrawal is not an end in itself.  Withdrawal happens for the purpose of return."  In which place are you now living--in the world of wilderness or in the time of preparation for return?  What do you learn from the return of Joseph and Mary, Moses, Elijah, or Jesus?
  • Where do you need to see God revealed in the here and now?

Prayer for Tuesday, Week Three
Lord, help us to see you more clearly and love you more dearly.  Amen.  

Monday, December 17, 2012

Week of Joy - Monday

Matthew 2:13 - 15.
Escape to Egypt
When the magi had departed, an angel from the Lord appeared to Joseph in a dream and said, "Get up. Take the child and his mother and escape to Egypt. Stay there until I tell you, for Herod will soon search for the child in order to kill him." Joseph got up and, during the night, took the child and his mother to Egypt. He stayed there until Herod died. This fulfilled what the Lord had spoken through the prophet: I have called my son out of Egypt.

Today's scripture is a selection from the passage that we used yesterday. The selection below from the reading passage selected for today in the Upper Room course seems unusually fitting.

"The world’s pain, suffering, and bloodshed come spilling into our living rooms in real time and in graphic color. We require help to sift through this overload of mental and emotional stimulation and to make sense of what it means to live in this twenty-first-century world. We need moments to withdraw and to gain not only a new realization of who we are but also a deeper realization of who God is."
This reading is a selection from Singing Mary’s Song, by John A. Stroman © 2012

Reflection Questions for Monday, Week Three
Take time for quiet reflection.  Respond to the questions below by writing in your journal or quietly reflecting.
  • When was the last time that you withdrew--on retreat or on vacation?  What gifts did you find there?
  • Make a list of the details and logistics that have to be arranged in order for you to withdraw again.  Formulate a plan to act on these details.  Choose a date, a place, and a person who may want to join you.  Go to meet God there. 

Prayer for Monday, Week Three
  • Lord, when withdrawal brings us a deeper understanding of ourselves and you, give us the courage to face the changes in our lives that our vision of you may entail.  Amen.  

Sunday, December 16, 2012

Week of Joy - Third Sunday of Advent

Matthew 2:7 - 23.

Then Herod secretly called for the magi and found out from them the time when the star had first appeared. He sent them to Bethlehem, saying, "Go and search carefully for the child. When you've found him, report to me so that I too may go and honor him." When they heard the king, they went; and look, the star they had seen in the east went ahead of them until it stood over the place where the child was. When they saw the star, they were filled with joy. They entered the house and saw the child with Mary his mother. Falling to their knees, they honored him. Then they opened their treasure chests and presented him with gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh. Because they were warned in a dream not to return to Herod, they went back to their own country by another route.

Escape to Egypt
When the magi had departed, an angel from the Lord appeared to Joseph in a dream and said, "Get up. Take the child and his mother and escape to Egypt. Stay there until I tell you, for Herod will soon search for the child in order to kill him." Joseph got up and, during the night, took the child and his mother to Egypt. He stayed there until Herod died. This fulfilled what the Lord had spoken through the prophet: I have called my son out of Egypt.

Murder of the Bethlehem children
When Herod knew the magi had fooled him, he grew very angry. He sent soldiers to kill all the male children in Bethlehem and in all the surrounding territory who were two years old and younger, according to the time that he had learned from the magi. This fulfilled the word spoken through Jeremiah the prophet: A voice was heard in Ramah, weeping and much grieving. Rachel weeping for her children, and she did not want to be comforted, because they were no more.

Return from Egypt
After King Herod died, an angel from the Lord appeared in a dream to Joseph in Egypt. "Get up," the angel said, "and take the child and his mother and go to the land of Israel. Those who were trying to kill the child are dead." Joseph got up, took the child and his mother, and went to the land of Israel. But when he heard that Archelaus ruled over Judea in place of his father Herod, Joseph was afraid to go there. Having been warned in a dream, he went to the area of Galilee. He settled in a city called Nazareth so that what was spoken through the prophets might be fulfilled: He will be called a Nazarene.

Today begins the third week of advent, the week of Joy. It almost seems improper to be joyful today when our hearts are filled with grief over the tragic death of so many innocent children and women. Today's scripture reminds us that murder, death and grief have always been part of the Christmas story - a part that we skip over quickly. But they are not the end of the story. God has provided us a comforter. Today we don't want to be comforted because our children are no more. But Jesus comes to us wherever we are, in whatever state we find ourselves, whether we are filled with joy or sorrow or a confusing mixture of both.

As I have reflected on the events of the past few days, it has occurred to me that thousands of innocent children die every day. They die of violence, of neglect, of starvation, of disease, from accidents and natural causes. Each day, each death is a tragedy for loved ones. They die one by one and do not attract our notice. But when so many are senselessly killed at once we cannot escape tragedy. Their have deaths become personal and we want to make some sense or take some meaning from the events.

I can't make sense of the senseless and will not try. I will not attribute their deaths to some grand scheme of God. I will look into my own heart and life to search for the ways in which I am guilty. I give silent approval to our culture of guns and violence every time I turn on the TV to watch entertainment that glorifies the hero with a gun. I give silent assent when I fail to lobby my elected leaders to take sensible action on gun control. I am a partner when I am more concerned about the cost of my taxes than I am about providing affordable mental health services to those obviously in need.

Reflection Questions for Sunday, Week Three

  • Take time for quiet reflection.  Respond to the questions below by writing in your journal or quietly reflecting.
  • Read Exodus 3:7-8 (see below).  Imagine the words written to you, for you.  What has God observed in your life?  What is your cry?  What does God know?  How can God come to deliver you?  What new land might God bring you to?  Try rewriting these verses for yourself.
  • Pray these words of Charles Wesley's hymn over and over, listening for God's message to you.  "Hasten the joyful day which shall my sins consume, when old things shall be done away, and all things new become."  (UMH 388)
Exodus 3:7-8
(7) Then the Lord said, “I have observed the misery of my people who are in Egypt; I have heard their cry on account of their taskmasters. Indeed, I know their sufferings, (8) and I have come down to deliver them from the Egyptians, and to bring them up out of that land to a good and broad land, a land flowing with milk and honey, to the country of the Canaanites, the Hittites, the Amorites, the Perizzites, the Hivites, and the Jebusites.
(The New Revised Standard Version, copyright 1989 by the Division of Christian Education of the National Council of the Churches of Christ in the United States of America. Used by permission. All rights reserved.)


Prayer for Sunday, Week Three
O God of grace and power, deliver us from our shortsightedness, which hides your presence from us.  Grant us a clearer vision of your truth, a greater faith in your power, and a more confident assurance of your love.  Amen.  

Saturday, December 15, 2012

Week of Peace - Saturday


Luke 23:42-43.
Then he said, "Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom." Jesus replied, "I assure you that today you will be with me in paradise."


Amazing Grace
How would you define the word "grace" to a young child?  In Singing Mary's Song, John Stroman defines grace as "the unmerited, undeserved, and unearned love of God showered on our lives" (page 52).  Stay alert to notice and receive that love today.

Today the news if filled with the tragic shooting of school children and teachers by a young man, not much more than a child himself. We cannot help but ask, "Where is God in this senseless tragedy?" I think we need to be careful to not frame this action as something that God caused in order to achieve some higher purpose. There is evil and there is mental illness in the world. There are natural disasters and man-made disasters. God does not spare us from the consequences of our actions. Let us pray instead that God's grace will be received by those touched by tragedy, loss and pain.

Reflection Time for Saturday, Week Two
 
  • What is true of God from generation to generation?
  • What attributes or characteristics of God have been revealed to you?

Prayer for Saturday, Week Two
Thank you, God, for your grace.  On our own, we feel frustrated and helpless.  But your grace and your acceptance of us in our most despairing moments bring to us both transformation and hope.  Thank you for a love that will not let us go.  Amen.

Friday, December 14, 2012

Week of Peace - Friday


Luke 7:18-23.
John the Baptist and Jesus
John's disciples informed him about all these things. John called two of his disciples and sent them to the Lord. They were to ask him, "Are you the one who is coming, or should we look for someone else?" When they reached Jesus, they said, "John the Baptist sent us to you. He asks, ‘Are you the one who is coming, or should we look for someone else?'" Right then, Jesus healed many of their diseases, illnesses, and evil spirits, and he gave sight to a number of blind people. Then he replied to John's disciples, "Go, report to John what you have seen and heard. Those who were blind are able to see. Those who were crippled now walk. People with skin diseases are cleansed. Those who were deaf now hear. Those who were dead are raised up. And good news is preached to the poor. Happy is anyone who doesn't stumble along the way because of me."

Even John who baptized Jesus wondered, Are you the one? It isn't surprising, then, that we too may wonder whether God is really present in the world. After all, there is plenty of evidence - poverty, pain, violence, disaster and death - to lead us to doubt the existence of a loving God. How can we find God in the darkness?

Reflection Questions for Friday, Week Two
Take time for quiet reflection.  Respond to the questions below by writing in your journal or quietly reflecting.
  • John's question, "Are you the one?" remains our question.  When have you asked this question?  How has Jesus answered you?
  • Do you believe--in the depth of your soul--that God is always present?  If not, what keeps you from believing? Is so, what give you assurance?

Prayer for Friday, Week Two
God, we don't believe you have forgotten us or are hiding.  Your actions may be a mystery to us, but we believe your promise never to abandon us.  Give us courage and wisdom to overcome anger with love, and evil with good.  Amen. 

Thursday, December 13, 2012

Week of Peace - Thursday


Psalm 23.
A psalm of David.
The LORD is my shepherd. I lack nothing. He lets me rest in grassy meadows; he leads me to restful waters;  he keeps me alive. He guides me in proper paths for the sake of his good name. Even when I walk through the darkest valley, I fear no danger because you are with me. Your rod and your staff— they protect me. You set a table for me right in front of my enemies. You bathe my head in oil; my cup is so full it spills over! Yes, goodness and faithful love will pursue me all the days of my life, and I will live in the LORD's house as long as I live.

Like you, I memorized Psalm 23 as a child. Through all the years, it has been there to comfort me when I am afraid or lonely. I learned the King James version, but have printed above the Common English Bible translation. In whatever translation or language, it brings a message of hope and love. God's loving care has been a constant presence in the world since creation. He cared so much that the walked among us as one of us. Christmas is a touchstone reminder of His great love for us.
Love Was Born at Christmas

Take a deep breath and remember that you are loved with love that is higher, wider, deeper, and broader than you can imagine!


Reflection Questions for Thursday, Week Two
  • Take time for quiet reflection.  Respond to the questions below by writing in your journal or quietly reflecting.
  • "The Bible recounts the unfolding drama of God's activity in human life."  What part are you called to play in this unfolding drama?
  • When has love been revealed to you in weakness, scars, and callouses?

Prayer for Thursday, Week Two
Thank you, Lord, for your love so deep, so high, and so broad.  There is no place we can go that is out of bounds of your love and care.  Help us not to forget that our greatest opportunity is sharing that good news with others.  Amen.

Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Week of Peace - Wednesday

Luke 1:5 - 17.
During the rule of King Herod of Judea there was a priest named Zechariah who belonged to the priestly division of Abijah. His wife Elizabeth was a descendant of Aaron. They were both righteous before God, blameless in their observance of all the Lord's commandments and regulations. They had no children because Elizabeth was unable to become pregnant and they both were very old. One day Zechariah was serving as a priest before God because his priestly division was on duty. Following the customs of priestly service, he was chosen by lottery to go into the Lord's sanctuary and burn incense. All the people who gathered to worship were praying outside during this hour of incense offering. An angel from the Lord appeared to him, standing to the right of the altar of incense. When Zechariah saw the angel, he was startled and overcome with fear. The angel said, "Don't be afraid, Zechariah. Your prayers have been heard. Your wife Elizabeth will give birth to your son and you must name him John. He will be a joy and delight to you, and many people will rejoice at his birth, or he will be great in the Lord's eyes. He must not drink wine and liquor. He will be filled with the Holy Spirit even before his birth. He will bring many Israelites back to the Lord their God. He will go forth before the Lord, equipped with the spirit and power of Elijah. He will turn the hearts of fathers back to their children, and he will turn the disobedient to righteous patterns of thinking. He will make ready a people prepared for the Lord."

Waiting seems like a lost skill in our hurry-up, instant gratification world. Sometimes I get impatient if I have to wait 3 or 5 seconds for my interent to connect. I am sending a signal to a satellite, to multiple servers around the country or world and it is coming back to me...in seconds...yet I chafe at the wait. Waiting in line during this busy holiday shopping season, waiting in traffic, waiting for the "big day" to come or to finally be over - we should be good at waiting but we are not. 

Some of us may be praying or waiting for a miracle to change our lives, as Zechariah and Elizabeth waited for the gift of a child, as Mary waited for the fulfillment of promise in her son. In the process of waiting, we may receive a greater gift...the "gift of endurance." God does not promise to send us miracles to overcome all the troubles we may face. He does make this promise: “My grace is sufficient for you, for power is made perfect in weakness” (2 Cor. 12:9).

During my husband's treatment for tonsil cancer (he is fine now) this little haiku poem became my daily mantra and carried me through the waiting:

Grace
God's Grace is present,
Sufficient for every need-
A bottomless well.

God's Grace is enough
If we believe it is so
To carry us through.


Reflection Questions for Wednesday, Week Two
  • Take time for quiet reflection.  Respond to the questions below by writing in your journal or quietly reflecting.
  • What are your physical responses to waiting?  Do you feel annoyed?  angry?  a tightness in your chest?  a headache?  exhaustion?  Envision that God is present with you in the waiting, and release and relax your physical body.  
  • Picture again the time line of your life.  Have you gone through weeks, months, or years when God seemed silent?  Where was God?  Why couldn't you hear God?
  • Do you see endurance (long-suffering) as a gift?  How is endurance linked to grace?

Prayer for Wednesday, Week Two
Lord, when there is no answer or no immediate way out, give us the gift of endurance through your grace that we may be patient in our hope.  Amen.